How to Make A girl
Do you have a crush on someone? It’s probably the most normal thing in life, right? But there is always that one person who makes you want to chase them all day long. That’s perfect for me, isn’t it. I am so happy when she comes along and fills my days with memories I will cherish forever. Maybe I just think about her every day. The way she looks or the voice she has. Whatever I thought of her I always put aside. She was my friend back then, but at some point she started going away from me for no particular reason. Something wasn’t quite right. We were friends for ages and all seemed well until we had to say goodbye. Then suddenly she said that she would take us out for dinner. And after that night, we only met up once more. My first time meeting her. As soon as I got home we spent hours talking or texting each other. After a while, I forgot about our friendship. Not even the fact that she left me alone while she went to work one Saturday morning. We never really talked again and everything else changed. So, since then I have not seen her again.

I know this feeling is very common among many girls around me but believe me when I tell you what happened. You want to get back into touch with that special someone and spend some quality time. You feel like doing something. You are ready to go out there to do things just because you have butterflies in your stomach. You want to talk to him or she about everything, but you are scared to speak to her and tell her everything. This feels good in the beginning, because you don’t want to hurt her feelings or disappoint her anymore. However, as you continue being close to that special girl the butterflies start bothering you the more and the longer you spend thinking about her. And every time you think about her and the thought that “maybe we could be together” the butterflies keep coming back stronger and stronger. Eventually your feelings for her become stronger and stronger as they creep closer to your heart. All this time you give your best to try to build a relationship with her, but you know deep down you are still afraid of losing her. Don’t worry we are here for you! Try these tips to make a girl on your mind. Believe me it will help bring happiness to your relationship. Because if you don't act now you may miss out on the things you want to share with that special someone. If you can't stop obsessing over her then try these steps, hope you will find out how to make a girl.

1. Be yourself around that special someone

The first step to making a girl is to be yourself around that special girl. People tend to pick up on certain things and things that others do. They tend to notice your behavior and facial expressions. When you are with her you become confident and open-minded. Yes you might look stupid and nervous with her. In reality, everyone is looking for different things in people. Some people seek intimacy and closeness while others prefer comfort. It’s kind of natural. Remember when your mom told you that it’s okay to be silly around people you didn’t know. Well she was right, and you haven’t lost sense in her presence. Even though you might look foolish and awkward, nobody likes a weirdo with nerves. Trust me we all look that way when we meet someone new. Just remember that your personality is just getting better everyday. Just keep trying to change the way you look for this special someone until you can’t find it anymore.

2. Keep an eye on your actions

Keeping in contact with that special girl means keeping an eye on your words and movements. Sometimes you make a mistake, but that doesn’t mean you won’t regret it later. No matter where you live, or when you have meetings you should always stand up. Stand like you are prepared for any situation that can happen. Say ‘hello’ when she walks near by. Even today I stood up for the man I was walking beside. Or maybe you want to give her flowers when she comes into the office. Your actions say a lot about you. Even if you are going somewhere nice try to leave an impression. Let her see you by the way you carry yourself and even if your outfit is wrong, your hair is beautiful or whatever, you wear the appropriate clothes to impress her.

3. Have a small fun moment

Some girls actually enjoy seeing their boy or girl happy, and some girls don’t like it if this happens. One thing I discovered after years and years of dating is that sometimes, having a few laughs or playing games together is enough to make a difference. I often end up sharing my thoughts or feelings with the same girl to ease her anxiety. For example during a recent date we played video games with lots of laughter. Her face lit up at the sight of those funny videos of characters doing cool stuff. I know playing games is a waste of money nowadays but this made me laugh out loud. Now I won't do that again but you will always have fun. If I were to ask her what was the main takeaway from this experience it would be that sometimes having a little fun helps you have a deeper conversation with her.

4. Show affection

One of my favorite ways is showing affection with kisses. Of course this works well especially if both of you have been together for such a while and this was part of your routine. This will make her want you, want to spend time with you, and have interest in being with you. Plus, of course showing affection brings joy. It creates an environment of trust, which is extremely important for women. The next thing you need to understand is how to show your affection properly. There should be no pressure on either of you, just let her know how much she means to you. I know guys have the tendency to give their girlfriends more than they want to give themselves, but try to avoid that. Showing your love is more than anything it’s making the girl feel appreciated. This is the fastest way to make a girl feel like she is loved, cared for and cared for. I have written a whole post on the importance of showing love to a woman. Get your copy here.

5. Touch and hold her hand

Touch plays an incredibly big role in building relationships. It’s not uncommon for boys to hug girls instead of holding hands. Why? Women feel more comfortable around men who have some sort of body language. Holding hands makes you look less anxious and even flirty. It also shows a level of respect, which is what a guy wants to see. A girl will notice when you hug her and even if it's just for 10 minutes it adds up to a big deal. Here is another great article about holding hands for women and boys.